My Mother Says Goodbye

My beloved Mother, October 15, 1934 - January 19, 2004

Around 3am on Monday, January 19, 2004 I was awakened by the sounds of my wind chimes ringing outside. I could clearly hear the ringing of the chimes on the back deck and in the garden outside my bedroom window.



They were singing to me that morning. It was lovely. I remember thinking, "how beautiful," as I closed my eyes and put my head back on the pillow. I wanted to drift off to sleep while I listened to the beautiful melodies of the chimes.

An hour and a half later I received a phone call from my Dad (4:30am), telling me that Mom had passed away in her sleep.

I know in my heart, and without a doubt, that at 3am my Mom was saying goodbye to me. It was the sweetest goodbye I ever heard.

My Mom passed away from ALS.

ALS - Lou Gerhig's Disease
What is ALS - Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), often referred to as "Lou Gehrig's disease," is a progressive neurodegenerative disease that affects nerve cells in the brain and the spinal cord. Motor neurons reach from the brain to the spinal cord and from the spinal cord to the muscles throughout the body. The progressive degeneration of the motor neurons in ALS eventually lead to their death. When the motor neurons die, the ability of the brain to initiate and control muscle movement is lost. With voluntary muscle action progressively affected, patients in the later stages of the disease may become totally paralyzed. Yet, through it all, for the vast majority of people, their minds remain unaffected.

Facts You Should Know About ALS
+The onset of ALS is insidious with muscle weakness or stiffness as early symptoms. Progression of weakness, wasting and paralysis of the muscles of the limbs and trunk as well as those that control vital functions such as speech, swallowing and later breathing generally follows.

+In most cases, mental faculties are not affected.

+ALS is not contagious.

+It is estimated that ALS is responsible for nearly two deaths per hundred thousand population annually. More people die every year of ALS than of Huntington's disease or multiple sclerosis and it occurs two-thirds as frequently as multiple sclerosis.

+Approximately 5,600 people in the U.S. are diagnosed with ALS each year. The incidence of ALS (two per 100,000 people) is five times higher than Huntington's disease and about equal to multiple sclerosis. It is estimated that as many as 30,000 Americans may have the disease at any given time.

+Although the life expectancy of an ALS patient averages about two to five years from the time of diagnosis, this disease is variable and many people live with quality for five years and more. More than half of all patients live more than three years after diagnosis.

+About twenty percent of people with ALS live five years or more and up to ten percent will survive more than ten years and five percent will live 20 years. There are people in whom ALS has stopped progressing and a small number of people in whom the symptoms of ALS reversed.

+ALS occurs throughout the world with no racial, ethnic or socioeconomic boundaries.

+ALS can strike anyone.